In His Own Words
About him
Retired from a long professional career, - a journey with many a challenge with of course mixed fortunes and therefore I trust, a sense and measure of life’s wisdom. No skeletons, baggage or back doors!
General information:
I’ve been told I’m good company, charming, straightforward, thoughtful, considerate, refined, kind, caring and reliable!
May “I say”, - confident without arrogance, gracious, patient and importantly identify with polite old school of thought, integrity, manners and values! An old “romantic at heart”!
I’m a good listener, very down to earth, tactile, sensitive, pragmatic by nature, compassionate and I trust fun to be with! Probably, - a tad old fashioned style of guy but with a very “distinctive modern identity”! GSOH, witty and dry! Tend to “Live in the moment” - makes absolute sense to me!!
I enjoy a comfortable lifestyle, admit to a discerning nature with refined tastes. I have much to share with the right person. I enjoy relaxing to melodic music offered by the Great American song book, smooth jazz, a fan of Sinatra, Bocelli and Bublé. Keep fit, Pilates, walk, pursue many activities and interests!
There is however that inevitable “void” when on your own!?
Consider - the romantic Amalfi Coast, imagine cruising the Caribbean or Mediterranean, driving the dramatic Antrim Coast Road and villages, the majestic mountains of Mourne, - a simple or romantic meal, a good movie, leisure at home, curling up on the sofa, simple coffee, - sunshine and rainbows, that dander along the seashore listening to the sound of the sea, - “always best shared” - [as is a visit to the isles of M&S or doing dishes😂]
I’m blessed with good health, [ thankfully] an enquiring mind, enjoy a glass of wine, or a GnT. World experiences!
If however, I seemingly don’t appeal, don’t pass muster for you - thanks for visiting here and taking the time to read this!
About his ideal match
My search: “a sincere passionate attempt to find “the existence of the impossible” - a charming distinctive rare lady with a kindred spirit!!
“Quintessential - a strong sense of femininity with bubbly personality, - FIRST impressions really matter! Generosity of spirit, warmth, affection and commitment are decidedly desirable”!
Then, “That undefinable chemistry”, - spontaneous mutual attraction, interest and spark, - fundamental whatever one’s age in any relationship and of especially romance!
I would hope you like what you “see and of course hear” and vice versa!?
My genuine apologies - I’m going to say it - “precisely as it is” - intended to simply provide “a guide ”, to possible expectations, desired traits and characteristics…. “not wonder woman” simply - a genuine decent human being who can identify with my script, aspirations and values.
Attractive, independent, financially comfortable, vivacious, well groomed and glamorous [style to suit], tactile, sociable, distinctive “LADY”, who hopefully finds me sufficiently interesting, even just a tad curious, to consider what’s behind such an exacting positive extremely optimistic gentleman!
Down to earth, chatty, adaptable, practical all rounder, emotionally free, caring, in search of a new chapter in “OUR lives”! Share joy, fun, laughter, values, romance and turn this aspiration into “our” reality! Wishing, able and willing to share time and embrace understanding ….“Festina Lente”!
Location and/or distance…..well, - for consideration!
I acknowledge this is a LOT to ask, let alone expect, - an optimistic challenge but it would simply be wonderful to find YOU, - a “unique LADY”, that’s why I’M here, - nothing ventured, - so “venture beyond”, - WHY NOT, - Carpe Diem and who knows!? So there it is in B&W!
Could be the most rewarding decision….”YOU ”nearly didn’t make!!
…If however I’m already a distinct turn off, not your cup of “tea or 🍷”, not for you, my sincere thanks for reviewing, - Ciao and all good luck in your search!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bangor, Down, Northern Ireland | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
74 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Other | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Ask me later | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
60 - 74 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 1" (154cm) - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Dark Brown; Auburn; Grey | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Protestant |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
None |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Variety shows |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Internet; Investing; Music; Politics; Reading; The arts |
Sports: |
Athletics; Bowling; Golf; Rugby; Skiing; Tennis |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Flirting; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Feelings about using Belfast Telegraph Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
